"Shoud we see love as a verb rather than a feeling?"

"No bridge is ever too far to cross.So let there be no more so-called bridges to stand in the way of the true wishes of the heart." I once read.

If there is one thing missing in your life now-it could be 'love'.It could be now that you are looking for love or a new love or wish to renew an old love.

Love is such that it is wise and knows when to ask,when not to stop,and when to let go without having to regret it.Love is such that it is kind and gentle;it listens patiently;it understands affectionately;it speaks softly;it forgives divinely.It is thoughtfulof the other;it looks to the need of the other and it gives completely without asking to be repaid.

There is no really end to the courtship and there should no end to courtship as it makes up the romantic plot of a true love story in a true love relationship.The roses must keep on coming,the promises as true as ever,and proposing your love as 'the climax of the heart's deliberations'.But opening up is often easier said than done and often a difficult passage to go through.It may be so because of the hidden fear of being laughed at or,seemingly worse,of being outrightly rejected.

Of course,such a romantic undertaking involves risks.One must understand that love begins with being friends and how well you keep up with being friends all the while until the relationship grows into something more than fondness,beyond mutual admiration,which in turn give way to mutual trust and respect until finally it becomes a case of true and abiding love bounded by commitments.It should not be the kind of love that is bound on selfishness,jealousy or demanding at that-which is the hurting kind of love.It must be love bent on a give-and-take proposition.

Everybody wants the best,and everybody deserves the best in love as in everything else.Going back,you must like that person so much-that he or she is thrilled to see you,that he or she missed you too,that he or she is dead over you and crazy for you,and that by your consistency,she or he deserves to have you.Then proposing your love would not be so hard.When he or she becomes stiff as you hold his or her hand means only he or she is as nervous as you are.

Even if there is a chance that you might be rejected-something which you should be prepared for-by conditioning your heart for such eventuality as letting him or her be free to choose as much it is his of her to beg you off in a nice way while maintaining the atmosphere of friendship.

I heard that separation is a painful process to go through,and the fear of its eventuality along with the fear of public embarassment,often magnified by what one imagines to be the whole world looking on with contempt,can be extremely a delicate matter that leaves the victim very bitter and hysterically predisposed.

They said that,"True love never dies,"and in fact,it is when love is made of genuine stuff that it can conquer all.It can defy time with all the patience it can gather no matter how long the waiting will be.It can travel through time in search of the beautiful memories one knows so well to ever want to give it all up.It can make time to go about looking for all the excuses and misgiving of the past righting all wrong within the spell of a moment made divine.

So,should we see love as a verb rather than a feeling?Maybe we should see love both as a verb and a feeling because love is indescribable.